Merry Christmas and A Spin of Alex's Old Article
Published on December 25, 2004 By NotSoSmellySarah In Misc
Well, how was everyone's christmas? mine was lovely, I got my baby as it is now called. My acoustic guitar, it is gorgeous, and i've dragging it all around the house, playing it constantly. So much that my fingers are killing me, and it kinda hurts to type but oh well. I even wrote a little song which i'm whipping up the lyrics too. so exciting. Brandon better watch out he may cheat on me with a book, but my acoustic's looking pretty darn good....j/k. Anyway so i got that and a violin (among other things mostly Hello Kitty, in alex's words the CULT. but it looks like that cult exploded all over my room) and i want to learn the song B.T. alex plays it on the piano all the time and i know parts of it. I kind of want to learn it but at the same time i don't cuz it's a sad little song about tragic love and i have to be in that artsy depressed mood to play it well.
There's something i wanted to write about, i'm having this problem. i mean its been redundant for almost a year now, but i need you guys to help me through it. I'm insanely jealous of this one girl, *you all know who i'm talking about* like so much that i used to cut just thinking about her. I can't take it anymore, she is my best friend in the whole world but yet she's drives me out of my mind, this is so horrible, i'm such a horrible person, but sometime i just can't stand to look at her. I think about her and it makes me sick to my stomache, i thought i was going to be okay and get over it. but it's spinning way out of control. i want to cry just thinking about how mean i am. She even wrote me and said that she was jealous of me too and that's why she competes with me constantly. but it's like she is in EVERY SINGLE GOD FORSAKEN ASPECT OF MY LIFE> i can't do anything without being cast into her shadow. I'm not even related to her. I can't enjoy life because i'm to worried about what she's going to take out of my life next. She's so sweet and nice and she doesn't deserve this, but at the same time i'm like why can't you just stay out of what i do????????? It's not my freaking fault i'm not as pretty or nice as she is. When do i get to shine (by myself)? But then i thought why would she be jealous of me? i mean come on now she's goregous and everyone knows it. and she's talkative and nice, and me. yeah just take the opposite of that and you've got me. Why can't i get what i want and be able to keep it? i don't want to end up alone again. *this is why i was sad* i don't want to wake up not knowing that what i longed for so badly won't be there. please help me. someone. anyone...

Comments
on Dec 25, 2004
I'm glad you enjoyed your christmas
As for this girl, have you tried talking to her? From what little I can gather it sounds like you both are jealous of each other yet want to be friends. In which case a good honest talking to each other could help that. But at the same time, you have to live your life for you, not just to compete with someone else. As for beauty, well that is in the eye of the beholder and all to many people behold themselves as not being beautiful when others would say they are. I don't now if this will help you or not...
on Dec 25, 2004
I'm not completely sure I know who you're talking about, but if it's your BEST friend, then I have a pretty good idea. If I'm correct, you two can shine at the same time. Moreso will you be able to shine after we graduate, but until then, think of yourselves as partners in crime, taking over the student body slowly but surely. Keep competing for whatever it is you compete for, but don't let it take over the friendship you two have. Don't be so consumed by trying to be better than each other that you overlook your own accomplishments.
on Dec 26, 2004
The problem is that I have to know exactly who you're talking about. Usually I don't even worry about it, but when you two end up talking about how much you both envy each other and how neither of you are good enough that's when I get worried. This girl you're speaking of is really a nice person like you say but that's only if she let's you get close enough to her. Even then, for the guys, she's too friendly. Please don't compete with her about how you act. Sarah, I love you the way you are and I don't want you changing the way you are.

Believe me, from being pretty good friends with both of you I think it's pretty safe to say that you are most definitely the winner in my eyes. What you usually see as faults as see as great qualities that can only get better. Don't get yourself feeling bad because I don't like it when you start talking about how you wish you were "better". The way you are now is awesome and making yourself "better" would be cool with me but I think you're trying to improve upon the wrong things.

I hope I wasn't totally incomprehensive because I'm at a loss for some of the words I was looking for.

Capt. over and out!
on Dec 26, 2004
Thank you all, for your kind words. I'm trying to think of myself as you think of me, brandon, but i struggle. I struggle to comprehend when people esp. of the male variety treat me like a human being.
I have talked to her about it before. I just want to live life and be her friend and stop feeling this way.
Oh and andy i think you know who i'm talking about but just to make sure, she's sits next to me in conkel.
on Dec 29, 2004
Ok, I have maybe two people this could be about. But I'm pretty sure it's just the one that's sticking out in my mind. Just talk to her. Tell her how you feel. If she's going to get mad at you, then *i hate to say this*, maybe she's really not your best friend after all. Friends shouldn't care what you look like or w/e. They should care about you for who you are.

~carebear~
on Dec 30, 2004
Yeah, nevermind, i know who this is about.

~carebear~
on Dec 30, 2004
yeah it's pretty obvious, i mean most ppl know that i've had this problemo for a while now
on Dec 31, 2004
Well, I think I know who this is about....is she in our psychology class? If so, I know...if not, I have few other guess....You're going to need to talk this out....I can help:D I'm always there to help...and of course, if it is the girl that fits the aforementioned description you know my feelings towards her, and anything to help her is a reward that I treasure above everything else....(and it's not about sex....I'm tired of people thinking that....not that you do, it's just that a lot of people do and to clarify....might as well do it here, it'as not all about sex...I mean it's not like I would resist sex or anything, it's just that it's not my main motive. I'm not a pervert, for the last damn time, and I'm not looking for sex from her actively....actually I'm looking for a relationship, but understand that I'm not gunning for sex now, if I can get half the people I know to read this, then we'll all be a lot better off)

~Zoo
on Jan 02, 2005
Shaun yeppers she's in our psychology class but i've tackled the problem by the time you replied. i'm doing better. but as for the sex thing, you worry me,