Here some more to throw into the mix
Published on January 6, 2005 By NotSoSmellySarah In Misc
First of all i would like to say that i dont want no one to feel sorry for me. I don't need your pity, i have friends that are going through a lot worse right now and i want to be there for them first and foremost. So this isn't about me feeling sorry for myself: I just need to express my feeling about what i'm going through right now.
Okay yesterday after Alice practice, i come home to find my mom crying in the doorway, which scared the crap out of me. My mom never cries, well hardly ever anyway, so i thought someone died. My mom tells me that my dad has wrote a letter saying he's moving out. I was sad, and angry because this is the second time he's left us. My mom has anger problems and my dad just "couldn't take it anymore". To be honest, i never wanted to see him again. He's here today because we had to have someone fix the basement. But i hope to God my mother doesn't let him back in because he's hurt us enough. I am a person that forgives very easily but this i cannot bring myself to forgive. And i won't, i'll probably resent him for the rest of my life. For instance this morning I woke up late and freaked out and ran downstairs to make sure my mom hadn't tried to kill herself.I don't know if he really is going to leave us for good or if there getting a divorce of whats going on at all and it scares me. All i can ask you guys to do is pray, not so much for me but for my mom and little sister. I think however this is in the Lord's plan to bring me closer to my mom, i've always had problems with her but in one day we became instantly closer.
Right now, I'm just emo, listening to Green Day's new cd, and trying not to break out in any more hives. I'm really stressed out and i actually need school so someone can make me laugh. I just feel like i have to be strong for everyone, and i crumble on my own. I don't understand while all this bad stuf is happening but then God works in mysterious ways. I'll be okay though.

Comments
on Jan 06, 2005
Wow...I'm not sure what to say....though for something so stressful you seem to be taking it remarkably well. You'll be in my thoughts....and prayers if I have any. What is this? The year from hell...if it starts out like this, it can only improve...well, hopefully. Good luck, Sarah...though I know Brandon will be more of a comfort than I can be, just know that I'll be thinking about you.

~Zoo
on Jan 06, 2005
Sarah,

You know that i am here for you. I will help you out in everyway i can and if you ever need to talk i am willing to listen.

Love,
Sam
on Jan 06, 2005
Shaun~ i have to take it well because someone has to be the strong one and well he left my mom after twenty years of mariage so i don't think she needs to be strong when i could just do it for her, and cowbelle's only thirteen and she was really close to my dad. Its really hard but i'll manage i have to. Your right the year should improve.
Sam~ thanks for your support it's really what i need right now, that and lots of hugs. Your an awesome friend.
Love,
Sarah
on Jan 07, 2005
Aww....Sarah I feel so bad. I know you don't want us to feel bad, but I do. It just seems like more and more people's parents are leaving one another. I find it so sad. I wish I could take all of your pain away from you. But looks like I really can't. I'm so sorry Sarah. I love you!

~carebear~
on Jan 08, 2005
hey sarrruh,
i hate that you have to go through this, and i know you don't want pity. i was in the same place you are in two years ago. i hate to tell you this, and maybe it won,t be this way for you, but it's been two years and it sucks as much naw as it did the first day after dad walked out. i will be here for you, you know that and i will always answer my phone at 3 in the morning. and i'll even run away with you and bring soggy crackers.
love always, your friend
kinjruh
on Jan 08, 2005
hee hee, i love you kinjuruh and all that you are. You are my very bestest friend, and remeber it goes both ways i'll be here for you too. I still wonder where we would be had we ran away in the woods in like three feet of snow eating soggy crackers. Hmmm....i really do have to agree that it's seasonal depression we both get a little blah around this time of year. Oh well.
on Jan 09, 2005
Hey...you all do know that you can talk to me, right?....I may not look it, but I'm a great listener.....and I like to help...eager to please, I suppose...well, if you want you can talk to me.....the offer stands for all of you.

~Zoo
on Jan 09, 2005
Please don't say Green Day is emo. That would tear down every foundation upon which my life is built.

Even if you say it IS emo, I don't think I'll believe you for the sake of my sanity.
on Jan 09, 2005
So much for the virues of marriage between a man and a woman.
on Jan 09, 2005
Andy~Green Day's new album i'm really sorry andy but it is emo. Emo isn't that bad. I mean its not really THAT emo but i mean come on like Give Me Novacane? that's like a big one. And for chrissake BOULVARD OF BROKEN DREAMS how much more emo sounding can you get than that. I mean you don't have to belive me just keep listening to the old stuf or just the american idiot song over and over, because thats certainly punk
Shaun~thanks, it means a lot to me that you would offer you ear to listen thats all i need right now.
Stevededalus~ i know what you mean, i don't want to get married because i'm afraid that'll happen to me. i'm cursed..