Get Off Your Sorry Butt and Make Things Happen
Life is not a video game with God at the controllers. I'm sorry but that's not how it works. God is the Father, He takes care of us, watches out for us, listens to our cries, and fixes things when we mess up. But He doesn't control what happens to us. There would be no need for Jesus or Salvation or Redemption if it was that way. I hate when people say well whatever God has planned. I do know what God does place people and situations in our lives SOMETIMES for a divine purpose. But we make our own descions. We have to work to get what we want. Prince Charming isn't going to just magically show up on your door one day and be like "hey, i'm the guy (or girl) God planned for you to marry!" It doesn't work that way. You can't expect that or the job of your dreams to land in you lap without working first. I believe in seeking God to find out what's best for you, but you have the choice to do that or go against it. There is always a choice. The human race is not like God playing with Barbies and Kens. If youre not satisfied with your life, fix it; don't sit around waiting for it to magically change. You tell God what you want and you pursue it.